Are INTJs afraid of relationships?

Here's the thing with INTJs (and INFJs too). They are FUTURE focused. They often find themselves in situations where they really enjoy someone, might even be attracted to them, but have issues with logistical or compatibility roadblocks. read more

Here’s some extra info to suplement the other excellent answers about INTJs and being afraid of relationships. Short Answer: No. If they choose to not be in a relationship it's because it’s a logical choice for them. Explanation: INTJs filter truth from falsehood by working it out like a calculus equation. read more

INTJs can be almost scientific in choosing a mate and make devoted partners once they have found a match that fits their rigorous list of requirements. They often have clear ideas about what makes for a solid relationship and are unwavering in their pursuit of this ideal. INTJs often have a passion for self-improvement and are encouraging of their partners' goals and intellectual pursuits. read more