Are you always supposed to feel butterflies in a relationship?

You are a victim of unrealistic depictions of love in the media, books, movies, etc. Love is not about feeling butterflies. read more

Nah. The butterfly feeling usually comes when two people feel infatuated by each other. But in a relationship, you both should feel loved by each other rather than by infatuation itself only. The butterfly feelings are supposed to be in the beginning and you are already past that stage. read more

Turns out, there’s actually some magic in feeling no butterflies, too. When it comes to relationships, I believe there are two kinds of happiness: giddy and content. Be wary of the former, and seek out the latter. read more