Do married men get emotionally attached to their mistresses?

Some certainly do. Read the biographies of Nelson, Charles II, or various French kings for examples. read more

Of course, some women may not be that emotionally attached to their lovers, but I would guess that most are -- especially in long-term affairs that carry on for years. Mistresses are just like any other woman in the world. read more

Of course they do. Some men love their wives and their mistresses. Some don’t love either and some will love one and not the other. Relationships are all different. But even if he does love his mistress, she will always come second AFTER the wife. The mistress is much better off to leave the man and find someone to love who isn’t married. read more