I used to believe that doing intimate stuff made you super-attached to someone, because that's what I was told, but I'll let you be the judge… All I ever did with my first boyfriend was kissing. No touching or anything else. read more
Adolescence is deeply confusing that way: some things will just not be explained to you, like what losing your virginity is really like. There is one thing I take away from the handful of"sex talks" I got from my mom that grew and matured with my concepts of love and sex over the years. read more
So, no, people don’t necessarily get attached to people they lost their virginity to. I’ll always remember him fondly, but it didn’t make me want him more or fall in love with him. Guys who believe virgins become “needy” after sleeping with them are only flattering themselves. read more
Feeling emotionally attached to the guy you lost your virginity to, or any guy you sleep with, is totally normal. But just because it’s normal and happens a lot doesn’t mean it happens to every girl. Contrary to popular belief, there are girls out there who can have sex without feeling emotions. read more