"I lost my disco virginity" would be said after your first time having sex in a disco. In your friend's case, she is still a virgin down below but is no longer a virgin upstairs. She needs to be informed about STDs from oral sex. I had a friend get herpes down below from getting oral sex from a bloke with a cold sore on his lip. read more
Oral sex is the most common loophole people find when it comes to the"it's not TECHNICALLY sex, so it doesn't count" excuse, but a ton of people would argue that oral sex is actually more intimate than penetrative sex. read more
So no oral sex not = losing virginity. Personally, I think, as long as she cannot orgasm from it, it doesn't count. Things that count as loosing virginity in my books: anal sex, regular sex. read more
I lost my virginity at 17, and had oral sex in the months leading up to that, and I definitely considered myself a virgin until that Saturday morning my boyfriend half fit his ween into me for the two and a half minute commercial break during a Real World marathon. read more