How did you feel after you lost your virginity?

Liberating. I had always considered sex as a taboo. It was something that had to stay miles away from my mind which was supposed to stay pure, just like my body. I had been fed with the concept of saving myself for marriage, and how precious my virginity was. And being the obedient girl I was, I complied. read more

The only thing that leads to a relationship is caring deeply about each other, and that doesn't have anything to do with when you lose your virginity. 12. It might not be ~magical~. read more

I lost my virginity to my current girlfriend, and the two of us have had a policy throughout our relationship of openness, so for awhile beforehand we had been discussing it, whether we were ready, what we wanted to do about it and when, etc. read more

I really don't know, because I don't know where to draw a line for declaring a state of virginity. The concept itself is an archaic remnant of patriarchal values that most decent people reject. read more