How did you feel when you were losing your virginity?

I had been fed with the concept of saving myself for marriage, and how precious my virginity was. And being the obedient girl I was, I complied. I vowed to keep myself void of any kind of sexual pleasure, or even the thought of it. read more

"Sex takes place mentally as well as physically," explains Smith."So if you feel tense or are scared, which most people do feel their first time, it can be really difficult to enjoy your experience." When you grow more comfortable, however, you'll feel more at ease — both with the act itself and your partner. (*Then* you'll start to see ???). 11. Afterwards, your relationship can get weird-ish. Real talk: Losing your virginity can bring you and your bae closer. read more

Adolescence is deeply confusing that way: some things will just not be explained to you, like what losing your virginity is really like. There is one thing I take away from the handful of"sex talks" I got from my mom that grew and matured with my concepts of love and sex over the years. read more

I lost my virginity to my current girlfriend, and the two of us have had a policy throughout our relationship of openness, so for awhile beforehand we had been discussing it, whether we were ready, what we wanted to do about it and when, etc. read more