You decide to stay faithful. The sort of things that keep me going is knowledge that I do not admire cheats because their lives are generally not worthy of admiration or emulation. I had 2 friends who cheat on their spouses. read more
Husbands who cheat on their wives go from one adventure to another and they keep cheating because they need the next “in-love feeling” shot. Infidelity thus becomes an addiction based on a misunderstanding about the nature of love. Now love has to grow to be able to last. In my opinion, there are three levels of growth in love: 1. read more
Confront your wife and your best friend about their affair. If you wish to try to work it out with your wife, I suggest marriage counselling. But I see that as the ultimate betrayal of both your wife and your best friend, so you may be better off ending the marriage (that's just my opinion, though). read more