How do INFJ's deal with infidelity?

It might depend on how close the INFJ is to their partner. There's a high chance that they'd start closing themselves off emotionally and take efforts to preserve themselves as much as possible - whether the infidelity is mere suspicion or a known fact. read more

If the partner was extremely remorseful, begged for another chance, promised never to do it again, the INFJ may forgive them and give them another chance. Or not. Each person is different and when it comes to love, most people struggle with the same issues regardless of personality type. read more

I’m an INFJ that was married to an ESTJ for 13 years, and I can write opposites do attract, but in my case, we each reverted back to “type” and the differences were too great to overcome. And after infidelity, I no longer wanted or had the energy to do so. read more

The INFJ's interest in human development applies to their mates as well, and they are encouraging of their partner's dreams, aspirations, and achievements. INFJs want to maintain harmony in their relationships and are highly motivated to resolve conflicts. read more