What people tend to do is choose new partners that are extremely disparate from the old ones—which might make sense. If you perceived your ex as overly critical, you'll naturally be drawn to someone who's laid back. The problem with this “solution” is that it doesn't solve the problem with the relationship seeker. read more
It takes 2 people to be in a relationship, sometimes a person has mentally left the relationship before the physical break up, so it is easy for them to move on quickly, maybe they ended the relationship so they could find a new, more exciting one. read more
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The thing is, often people go in hot pursuit of finding someone else because they think that will fill the void of being without their ex. It will fill the gap where the relationship was and will fix what they’re feeling, which they can’t handle or deal with alone. read more