How long does it take to figure out one's sexuality?

My friend, I have been there, and I am still there, and I have felt how completely confusing that can be. I'll speak to you a bit from my own experience with banging my head against the wall and wondering what the fuck even is my sexualiy. read more

Some people know this early on. For others it takes longer to figure it out. By the time I was 5 years old I was attracted to girls and women. In your case you don’t say if you’re a guy, but I’m guessing you are, and it sounds like you’re gay. read more

Sexual orientation is as much about romance and desire as it is about anything else, and is much less about the actual act of sex than many people seem to think - for example, not all gay men like anal sex, not all straight women like vaginal sex, and so on. read more