From the initial story my husband told me, to the intimate and embarrassing things he’d later say to excuse himself for his bad behavior, to the realization of what I’d allowed (on some level) happen to me—all of it pecked away at my sense of self. read more
For you to get over the fact that your boyfriend cheated, he needs to put in just as much -- if not more -- effort into healing the relationship as you do. He must take responsibility for his behavior and be prepared to do whatever it takes to earn your forgiveness and trust. read more
We continued to see the therapist for 18 months, and over that time my rage and grief ebbed and flowed. Some days I did scream at him. Other days I felt like I could live with it. I would think about going out and having my own one night stand to get back at him. The resentment hung over me. read more