Is 'being myself', sometimes actually 'being selfish'?

Being myself is usually being the listener when I dine out with my friend, because I'm introverted and prefer listening to talking. read more

Being called selfish doesn’t feel like a compliment, but the trait can actually make you a better person, psychology experts say. advertisement “When you take care of yourself first, you show up as a healthy, grounded person in life,” says Bob Rosen, author of Grounded: How Leaders Stay Rooted in an Uncertain World (Jossey-Bass, 2013). read more

Being myself is usually being the listener when I dine out with my friend, because I'm introverted and prefer listening to talking. Being selfish is letting my friend sweat out all the details of the next trip and offering no help, using introversion as an excuse. You're selfish when you don't put in your fair share - of whatever. read more