There are several possibilities, and figuring out which is best discussed with your therapist. 1. Pain avoidance or reduction - menopause can cause physical or emotional pain. Sex is a distraction from misery. 2. read more
That said, some women become highly sexually charged once menopause starts. Perhaps this is you, but then it would be a reason, super horny and husband no longer is enough. There is always a reason, the why you are not giving us. But whatever it is, menopause is a symptom of your age, not a causation of infidelity. read more