No, it is not ok. Given that the kid is 3 (three) years old and can't possibly understand the dangers of such a spider, it's irresponsible from your brother to give a Chromatopelma Cyaneopubescens (the only blue and orange tarantula I know) in the hands of anybody, let alone a 3 year old! Chromatopelma Cyaneopubescens[1]. read more