This is an exceptionally difficult situation to be in. You ask; βIs it possible for an abusive relationship to become healthy?β I would say sure. But it will take a great deal of work. With out proper context I would encourage you to seek counseling. read more
Change is possible, but for many couples, it's an uphill battle to develop healthier habits. For starters, you may want to check out Healthy versus unhealthy relationships in the Go Ask Alice! archives. read more