Why am I attracted to emotional pain?

You say that you are more ‘attracted’ to those who bring you emotional pain. I believe, it may likely be that your just confusing feelings of attraction with, again, insecurity. For example, lets say your girlfriend was flirting with another guy to deliberately make you jealous. read more

This "attraction" to emotional pain is not an illness, make no mistake. What you described is not sick or unacceptable; it's perfectly normal and very healthy. In fact, it demonstrates your ability to sympathize with others on a deep level. read more

I've started to realize that I may be attracted to emotional pain and hurt. I find that I put myself into situations where I will be hurt emotionally. read more