My girlfriend verbally abuses me constantly. What should I do?

I had a girlfriend who yelled obscenities at me all the time. This was probably a "shit test"; in think she was seeing whether I would have enough backbone to stand up for myself and not tolerate that behavior. read more

If I sit there, with my arms crossed, not making any move at all, and I got mad at you for pressuring me into making a move, there is only one thing to do: to leave the table and to call it a day. Your girlfriend may sit across the table, there may be a chess board in between the two of you, but it is just going through the motions. read more

I should note that anything she does do for me must always be on her terms. read more