Why do certain people attract stalkers?

So I am extremely confident, have lots of friends (many guys), I always am complimented on how nice I dress, I do not open up to many people and stay away from hard points in my life, and I feel I present myself as very bubbly and upbeat. read more

I am on my third minor league stalker in the last 5 years. It happens if you are reasonably attractive and TOO NICE / too considerate of other people's feelings. read more

The stalker may also focus on a celebrity, especially if they've seen him or her in person -- at a public appearance like a concert. "They develop convoluted thoughts about this person. They feel this person is the answer to their dreams," says Moore. read more