Should one inform a person of their spouse's infidelity?

The question, when the spouse of the person your spouse cheated with doesn't know about the affair, should you tell this person what had been going on? ... read more

The person you tell will certainly not like the news, nor like you any more. “The bearer of bad tidings is an unwelcome guest.” by me, Pete The person you squeal upon will know you are a rat, and will hate you forevermore. read more

The affair should be exposed to one person at a time, preferably meeting face-to-face. Convincing evidence should be presented so that the affair cannot be challenged, but salacious details should be avoided. Accuracy is essential. The purpose of exposure is not to embarrass or punish the unfaithful spouse. read more