The narcissist is trying to Hoover. What should I do?

The Narcissist that hoovers is really doing what some dating coaches call orbiting. It’s really his way of trying to get his fuel (benefits) and also ties into triangulation because he wants to get jealousy going. read more

“Hoovering” is the term used to describe a narcissist trying to re-connect with you after a time of separation. Often, this separation occurs after a time of silence between you and the narcissist. read more

Hoovering is a technique that's used by narcissists (and other manipulative types) to suck their victims back into a relationship with them. It's named after the Hoover vacuum cleaner and it makes a lot of sense because the hooverer is basically treating you like dirt. read more