What happens when 'being yourself' just doesn't work?

When being yourself doesn't work, either one of two things is going to happen: You stop being yourself. You stop trying so hard. I can't speak for being liked or getting a certain job or making more money or impressing a girl, but for your happiness, only one of the two ever works. read more

When “being yourself” doesn’t work you go back to being someone else. You forcefully try to get what you want, paddling your canoe against the current with all your might instead of letting it take you wherever it goes. For some people this works brilliantly; they create a whole life based around a personality they chose. read more

Allow yourself to sit quietly every morning before starting your day for just five to ten minutes. Yes, thoughts will come and go, but just allow them to do that without getting attached to them. Just observe them. read more

10. That sometimes you will be able to get yourself off, but it won't be that good. I truly don't understand what happens when you have an orgasm but it's almost like you didn't. But whatever it is, it's so sad. 11. That unexpected people might pop into your head while you're masturbating and that's fine. read more