Why do some bullies act like they are the victims?

Some bullies are simply intolerant. They perceive someone who looks, thinks or acts different as a threat to their narrow perception of how the world should work. It offends their sense of order. Using an extreme example, racists often feel that they are being oppressed by the very people that they harass. read more

I believe that a bank robber is not born a bank robber. Its “learned behavior” No child is born a bully they become a bully with the aid of many factors, primarily the effects of their environment they are raised in. read more

If you act the part, you’ll get the part. Bullies act like victims to get the victim’s treatment, namely coddling, protection and so on. It also means that they victimise the victim, thus furthering any agenda they may have with no major effort on their part, and encouraging the victim to stay quiet. It’s a win-win for them. read more

bullies are essentially cowards. and they almost always feign victim when confronted or when they fear being exposed. that is part of their act. take no notice when they feign victim. just cooly remind them that they are the bully, not the victim, and that they fool nobody, and walk off. read more