That’s news to me. Generally your garden variety stalker is at best delusional about the relationship parameters of the person they are stalking or in frank denial of reality. read more
Many people stalk someone they have only met briefly -- someone they don't really know, or barely know. The stalker may also focus on a celebrity, especially if they've seen him or her in person -- at a public appearance like a concert. "They develop convoluted thoughts about this person. They feel this person is the answer to their dreams," says Moore. Stalkers write countless letters or emails to their victims, begging for attention. read more
They think their stalking is about the person, that the person is special or made for them or the person likes them back, but truly it has nothing to do with the person. The person is basically a godhead that helps them cope with life and shields them from feeling the underlying pain. read more