Why does a narcissist forget or ruin your birthday?

A Narcissist ruins your birthday because he (or she) knows it's your day. Nothing is about you, it's about what the Narcissist wants. If he acknowledges it at all, it's because he wants you to know and recognize that he is doing just that. read more

A narcissist generally needs to be the center of attention so when you have a special day like your birthday where you are going to automatically get special attention it irritates them deep down. They're jealous and upset because they don't get attention even if it's for 5 minutes that's all it takes to upset a narcissist. read more