Why don't I have fun at parties?

Lemme guess… one or two of these might fit you and be true: you're intelligent and/or highly intellectualized. You have problems being spontaneous or irrational in public. read more

Regardless of why you don't have fun, if you don't, don't go. Or go for a little while and then leave. Or have your own parties that you will enjoy, with people you choose. It doesn't matter - as long as you are enjoying yourself, you're fine. If people ask you why you don't go to the parties they go to, just say you had something else to do. You did. read more

RE: I Don't Have Fun At Parties Or Clubs You should definitely try a quite bar with softer music if you think the club or parties is a bit over-whelming. Also, you can meet women in the day time or in coffee shops so it does not limit to the club or at parties. read more