My father's mother, Indu Mitra (Ghosh before marriage), Bengali, Indian, died in Kanpur, India, when my father was 3. That was 30 years ... My ggfather died shortly after. Ihe was in his 90s and I was probably in my 30s. On my fathers side: My abuelita passed in 2009, aged about 85. I was in my late 30s. read more
One day my father talked to me I know he is drunk. He cried in front of me and he even apologized to me many times. And he explained everything to me. I thought that was the most heartbreaking for me but in that year my father died. And I wake up in the day of my birthday, my father is dead what a gift right. read more
No it doesn't make you a bad person, my grandfather died on the day after i got my exam results to go into high school. I didn't cry and i couldn't handle it I just stood as far away as possible took a last glance and that was it. They thought i neede a shrink but i was just in grief . read more